Prostate massage can induce some of the most shattering orgasms and other wellness benefits. But many people lack access to (or the inclination of using) cutout dildos or even vibrators. Enter the do it yourself prostate massager. It’s a fanciful yet economical substitute. I have come across a DIY prostate massager as a sex toy tester and writer for so many years that I’ve witness the good, the bad and, surprisingly, the effective. I will outline below all of the safe ways to tailor your own massager along with the vital safety procedures to observe in preventing harm.

Why you should DIY your own Prostate Massager?

For others, the traditional approach lacks creativity.

• Privacy: If purchasing a product for exploration isn’t very engaging, tapping into the ”magic” of self-pleasure is perfect.
• Creativity: The use of everyday items as to help in deciding on which features to customize for later.
• Urgency: When the toys are not handy, this serves as a quick fix.

However, be cautious. Carefully plan everything before you set onto making the toy, the anus and prostate are extremely sensitive regions. Using the wrong materials and or methods can result in cuts, infections or even ruptured vessels (yes, you will need to go to emergency room).

5 Expert Tips for Safely Creating Your Own Designs 5 Tips to Ensure Safety While Designing at Home

1. Selecting Safe Materials for the Body

Which Parts Work:

• Silicone utensils: Smooth surfaced spatulas or spoons.
• Hollow Objects: Glass or Metal: A polished candle holder is a good example of smooth- no sharp, jagged edges.

Do Not Select: Rubber or wood or plastic with seams.

Lack of items with a flared bottom, essential for evacuation base.

2. Proper Disinfection Soak in boiling water for 10 minutes (as long as they can take heat).

• Rinse with 10% bleach solution, then soap, then water.

3. Checking Comfort Level

• To protect from skin irritation, cover with a condom, then check your DIY massager against sensitive areas like the inner elbow.

4. Lube, Lube, Lube

• Best for homemade props are water based lubes. Oil based should be avoided if condoms are being used.

5. Always Have a Alternative Strategy

• Tweezers of medical-grade should be kept for backup on any case of slippage.

Set risk discomfort as the limit, pain signals immediate stop.

Identifying and Conquering 3 Common Mistakes with DIY

1. Using Penchant Shaped Veggie Fruits (e.g., Zucchini, Carrots)

• Risk: Bacteria, sharp breakage or sharp small pieces of fragile material, or splinters.
• Correction: Wrap in more than three condoms and do not use porous vegetables like carrots.

2. Repurposing electrical appliances (tooth brushes, etc)

• Risk: Sharp edges, electric shock, or poisonous parts.
• Fix: Use non-motorized items only.

3. Ignoring the Flared Base Rule

• Risk: Objects getting stuck.
• Fix: Include a retrieval string or use wide-stopper tools (like Silcione spatula heads).

Situations When Do-It-Yourself Isn’t an Option

For me, homemade tools are band-aid solutions. If you decide to incorporate prostate play into your repertoire, consider professionally crafted:

• Body-Safe Toys: Medical grade silicone prostate massager.
• Non-Penetrative Options: Fingers for perineum or lingam to stimulate.
• Lingerie-adjacent Play: Engage in sensory teasing with silk blindfolds.

Takeaway From a Sex Toy Tester

While making a homemade massager is tempting, your safety will always come first. Follow my risk reduction guide to ensure safety measures are upheld – And remember, you deserve tools that have been designed to care for you. Designed will always out DIY in terms of results and peace of mind.

Caution and curious are both beautiful traits.