8 Best Pegging Positions For Beginners!

Pegging, defined as a partner anally penetrating the other partner with a strap-on dildo, can be stiffening bonding exercise for some couples and others might find it an ultimate test of trust. Either way, you look at it, for a beginner, this might seem both exciting and horrifying. As for the approach, stick to positions centered around control, comfort, and communication. With that said, overcoming the learning curve alongside your partner and focusing on mutual pleasure, below, we have compiled 8 beginner-friendly pegging positions.

1. Missionary (With a Twist)

Why it’s great for beginners:

This classic position remains face-to-face and allows the couple to check-in with each other throughout the activity, which is so important when one partner is voicing their needs. The receiving partner is lying on their back with hips elevated (use a pillow!), while the giving partner kneels or stands between their legs.

• Pro tip: the hands-on-hips method can help dictate the pace to some of the receivers.
• Pros: Intimacy is maintained, promoting maximum engagement; the bottom’s pacing and rhythm are easily managed.
• Cons: For the giver, control over depth is limited.

2. Modified Doggy Style For Comfort

Why it’s great for beginners:

Receiving partners benefit from easier knee and back support when the penetrating partner executes the all-fours position a bed or couch.

• Pro tip: A towel placed under the receiving partner’s knees can make all the difference.
• Pros: Access is profound and body parts are aligned.
• Cons: Limited interaction at eye-level.

3. Spoon (Slow & Snug)

Why it’s great for beginners:

Both partners recline on their flanks, one with a back resting against the other’s chest. The position is supportive and familiar; therefore, only gentle pressure is placed on the receiving partner’s body. Even so, slight rhythmic thrusting can still be performed.

• Pro tip: Ask the receiving partner to bend their top leg a little toward them.
• Pros: Physically undemanding, intimate contact.
• Cons: Movements of the giver are literally restricted.

4. Cowgirl/Cowgirl (Receiver in Control)

Why it’s great for beginners:

The receiving partner straddles the giver who is lying flat on their back. Control of the angle, pace, and intensity of thrusts/descends rests on the receiver. Perfect for someone taking the driver’s seat for the first time.

• Pro tip: The giver should be using a chair or bed with a headboard for back support.
• Pros: Receiver’s sedate pace, face-to-face interaction.
• Cons: Core strength required.

5. Seated Edge of Bed (Easy Access)

Beginners can benefit from this position as:

While in a standing or kneeling position, the dressed partner faces forwards and the receiver sits on the edge of the bed with legs hanging off. This position is upright yet easy for the recipient to lean back into, offering a nice level of control to dictate pace.

• Pro tip: One or two pillows behind the receiver’s back greatly assists.
• Pros: Ergonomic relax lean back posture, pacing increase and decrease ease.
• Cons: Creatively compensating due to different height may be required.

6. Reverse Cowgirl/Cowperson (Visual Play)

Beginners can benefit from this position as:

The straddled receiver has the option to face away so that the giver is out of sight, reducing some anxiety.

• Pro tip: It’s helpful for the total freedom to hold on to the thighs of the receiver’s hips.
• Pros: Playful for depth.
• Cons: No eye contact makes communication difficult.

7. Lotus (Close and Connected)

What makes it beginner friendly:

In this position, the receiver is seated on the lap of the giver in a cross-legged manner. Their arms automatically go around the giver’s shoulders. This fosters intimacy.

• Pro tip: A thick pillow beneath the hips of the giver will create a better alignment.
• Pros: Emotional bond that is warm and nurturing, less effort in position, ease of use.
• Cons: Deep penetration is range limited.

8. Standing Bent-Over (For Adventurous Newbies)

What makes it beginner friendly:

The receiver bends over a table and the giver takes a standing position behind them. This has clear excitement but is playful at the same time requires some level of coordination.

• Pro tip: Short sessions give the best results. Also, don’t skimp on lube!
• Pros: Unpredictable, explicit charge.
• Cons: Balance and trust are necessary, a must.

Safety and Preparation Checklist:

• Lube, Lube, and Lube: Lubrication is essential during each phase of engagement, lubricant that is ideal would be a water-based or hybrid lubricant.
• “Start Small”: A small confined low resistance toy that is sleek should do the trick for starters.
• Warm Up: Massage with fingers externally first to help unwind.
• Communicate: A safe word is suggested to signal the end of action or pause for the action.

As far as TLC goes, cleanliness suggests that toys ought to be sanitized both pre and post use. A pre-procedure enema for the ‘receiver’ is optional.

With Pegging, Don’t Forget Aftercare:

In any case, ensure there is follow-up hydration especially after what could be an emotionally and physically demanding pegging session. Water is bliss for both players.

It is also highly recommended to talk about What during the session of joystoning went best and what things need improvements.

Ending a session with gentle petting and similarly close body touches serves to reduce mild feelings of exposure to vulnerability and integrating touches like these to slightly more active touches reinforces the bond further.

Why These Positions Work for Newbies:

Supporting pillows and towels guarantees minimal strain. A huge plus for most receivers is being granted pace control which they set for themselves.

Finally, to indulge in some beauty that is going to sleep in

Don’t disregard pegging as just another satisfying ride on a bicycle. It is much more than that. There is no defined best position as was highlighted so long as both sides feel safe and curious. The so-called “best” is however subjective and posits Feel free to laugh through the supposed embarrassing pauses as those become the best part. not the worst.

Add laughter and growing levels of tolerance as well as time and expect unique finds with your companion.

Pleasure requires teamwork, so go at it gently yet, be firm as all touch has to be consensual.