How To Sissygasm: 5-Step Guide To Hands-Free Prostate Orgasm
Not a whole lot of people are aware that the term sissygasm which refers to hands-free prostate orgasms has been derived from the term “Sissy,” which actually is a derogatory term for denoting someone. Hands-free sissygasms are said to be linked deeply to a person’s physical functioning instead of solely a product of imagination. With the right techniques, one is sure to unlock the gates to this body dilemma. Here is a handy guide that is medically approved to help kick things off for you.
Step 1: Understand What You Are Working With
“P-spot” or prostate is a gland the size of a walnut and is situated approximately 2-3 inches inside of the rectum. This ‘pleasure center’ as the prostate is often touted to be, releases unique pleasure waves distinctly different from traditional orgasms when fiddled with.
Guide To Locating It: Gently insert a finger (or toy) that is slick with lube. Now press towards the front of your anatomy. Lo and behold, it should feel firm and spongy.
Step 2: Focus On Safety And Comfort Prep Work
Hygiene Checklist: Wash the anal region under water with a gentle soap. Deep cleaning can be attempted using an enema bulb.
Relaxation: Tension Exercisers, Breath: Take deep breaths at a steady rate and loosen the tension. Muscles are tightened due to anxiety and makes penetration uncomfortable so taking deep breaths is a sure way to ease the discomfort.
Lubricant: Apply generously and often, especially at water-based or hybrid lubricant.
Step 3: Pick The Correct Toys
As prostate-specific and body-safe anal toys. Steer clear from larger:
Massagers: Suitable because their P-spot-aiming curves guide them.
Dildos: Slim and elastic with a flared base for backing safety.
Avoid Using the Wrong Materials: Jelly/TPE toys trap bacteria. Use silicone, stainless steel, or glass instead.
Step 4: Perfect the Skill
Take Baby Steps: Insert toys with light pressure so the body can stretch.
Proper Direction: Target the prostate by aiming towards the belly button.
Consistent Stimulation: Short thrusts or vibrations at a steady pace. Increase the pace over time—this is not a race.
Pro Tip: Increase arousal during prostate play by adding gentle stimulation to the penis (if applicable).
Step 5: Practice Controlled Arousal
Prepping is Crucial: Watching or reading obscene material or daydreaming prepares you.
Focus on the Body: Be aware of gentle pleasure—do not set your sights on orgasm.
Exhale During It: Slow exhaling at the peak can push you beyond the edge.
Biggest Mistakes to Take Notes On
❌ Skipping the Warm-Up: This can lead to discomfort.
❌ Overstimulating: Excessive pressure will lead to numbness of the prostate.
❌ Giving Up Too Soon: It can take months to weeks of practice.
FAQ
Q: Are sissygasms gender/ orientation specific?
A: Nope! Anyone with a prostate can enjoy prostate play, irrespective of identity.
Q: Can I hurt myself?
A: There’s low risk with the right tools and gentle methods. If it hurts, stop.
Q: What if I don’t reach orgasm?
A: Refrain from focusing on the end. Many tend to enjoy the process rather than the end goal.
Final Thoughts
Reaching a sissygasm is less of a executes affair and more attuning with your body. Safety, patience, and self-kindness come first. Over time, you will reach a new level of pleasure that will further expand your mind and body.
TL;DR: De-stress, apply lubricant, angle towards the prostate, and release expectations.